mr. smiley, i am glad to have you on my flight." i get tickled when i find out that it is an african-american. it does not happen that much. i travel, and i am in a restaurant, and i want to go eat, and if the ship comes out and offers to introduce themselves, and they turn out to be black, i just am guilty -- giddy, because i know how hard it is to get there. >> i think integration and segregation is part of it. back in the day, all of the restaurants were black of, all of the hotels were black of, and all of the shops -- all of the hotels were black bow and -- owned, all of the restaurants were black owned, and all of the chefs were black. i did not work this hard for you to go to college for you to go back in the kitchen. when you have been serving this for so long, it is very hard to say, you know what? i am a lawyer, i am a doctor, and now my kid is going to become a chef. we are just slowly getting back into the industry of service. i am a server. i take pleasure when my diners are having a good time, regardless, but getting b

ey if o yno out there know mrs. smiley, call in and talk about how great she was.coy e envanext doortour be whed o onha lra sae'alra.l e was one of the earliest flight attendants in the history of flight. she used to talk to me about how she was flight attendant on anhaou ss fl and atly hs age. um, and then she married walt smiley and settled down on smiley lane next door to , suss a v roilmaer n hneto f rm friendship with my then-4-year-old daughter. who when she was in sixth grade had to write um, anss t, rytie d ten e a s.le shju w cet nobee i think probably she got me started on that road of thinking twice about how i thought of some of the wonho go bre ie h aheera y aiaegr e er sin ueye y >>t: wles.le was smoking? >> guest: yeah. mrs. smiley smokedup until the last day of her life. >> host: how old was she when e di? bu u b mrs. smiley would say to her, you know, if y're going to do that, you can go home. she was forever tossing maria tiofr, kshwoul jtet gh yo tavw.th bee,ow m sy was,s i said, a real pip, and maria is a pip in training. someday she will an exc

mrs. smiley smoked up until the last day of her life. >> host: how old was she when she died? >> guest: i think she was in her bu u b sy d to ynoou going to do that, you can go home. she was forever tossing maa out because she would just get tired of hr, you know? [laughr] yo tavw.th wassal p and maria is a pipn training. someday she will be an excellent pip, and she will have most of what she ndowo fr msm. pa oe hept parent? >> guest: i'd like to think i was not a helicopter parent. um, because i mainly seethe downside to helicopt renting. yo kanip he nngty' donir, u without someone telling them how to proceed, then they don't learn how to do things on their betoowce.ut telling wit ththinsnk es iose yo ak r purin yr ccists you know, if you do, if you do an art project and your mother prt yo g yoing 80% of trt prt,r ierarou 'sinial do this? i think it's the latter. and one of the reasons i like to think that our kids who areot mature peowh arysy now are inheldee a ai pt non't, i should not get the credit for this. it's not like i said i shouldn't hover, i shouldn't make the ca

firihithapdor when w ixra d rim, essay about, um, her very bes friend and wrote an essay about mrs. smiley. sht rt ot rtas aome j tkice a ouofme othe women who had gone before us out in the world. >> host: and then there's a story about maria telling r the dangers of smoking laayhee.p u t >>t:ld w when she died? >> guest: i think she was in her late 70s when she died. too soon for my taste, frankly. gotoatu go'ro shsersia out because she would just get tired of her, you know? [laughter] and say, no, you can't do that, you have to leave now. they had the best frienhip ca y ,rmi s,id a ri a soy win ele pip, and she will have most of what she knows handed down to h wyo hoprssmil. rer yolier nt wat lier pnt bee mainly see the downside to helicopter parenting. i think it really can cripple evon t om,ve thsoelth ro,n dt n too things on their own without telling, without being told how to proceed. and the other thing is i think yono io, y iossifou project and your mother really is doing 80% of the a project and you get an a, do you say, wo i gotanon mar th sg,dn ly i k tte d of rns l t k os a not

mr. chairman. if i could think of chairman sindh ranking members for making this happen. by taxing us transition from a smiley thing appears like it's happening. and to both of you, you have my deepest gratitude and the people in the first district for defense of this nation. i've got a tough one here i know it troubles those of you. the issue that came out in the gao reported a 26,000 soldiers discharged on a personality disorders. my question is brought to the fact that vietnam veterans commission to study a gala while school about what we're doing about that. my question, probably to you, secretary panetta is to correct those veterans who may have brought it improperly discharged with personality disorder diagnosis? >> we are conducting a complete review of this area. you know, we have responded to the situation that took place up in washington and that was the focus of the gao report and that is what concerns us a great deal. as a result we not only went over to their, we ran a review elsewhere to make sure that the same kind of problems have not occurred elsewhere. you know, it is important that we deter