. >>> some won't let the mrargs shake hands because fights have broken out, some animosity spilling overt. they pulled a little roger clemens language. and i remember how we described that in the memo and they've since retracted that saying, handshake res allowed, they just have to be monitored. but i think it's emblem attic of your point, it's am blemattic of removing all the great things about team sports, in this case, learning how to win and lose with dignity. it's important to learn how to win with humility and dignity and lose. so me, it's probably just a few bad apples and some overzealous parents and coaches who get the testosterone flowing and the next thing you know there's a brawl. but one of the greatest traditions in sports, to me, is the nhl where at the end of a playoff series, they beat the hell out of each other. like no other sport xepts maybe football. and at the end of it, they line up, shake hands and the crowd applauses. >> maybe you pluck out the ones who are actually causing the problems. where's, do we not learn something from the bumpes and bruises that we get?