a friend of the pike family told me, when he died, someone said to mrs. pikehe's with god and she said, i'm fine about him being with god, but not now, i want him with me. and that's what i feel like. >> every day? >> yes, i think about her and misher greatly. i'm supposed to say, what would jesus do, i want to say, what would she do. she's a part of me and to think about what she would do in situations that comes up, it gives me a balance to myself. >> thank you for sharing that. we'll be back and we want to say a word about your book on forgiveness. >>> my wife was a photographer. back from one of the trips, she stopped to see my dad. the call i got was to say, i want to tell you that your father and i have forgiven each other. what that did to free me, to begin with, they had always allowed me to have a good relationship with the other. i never was pitted. i got a sense of freedom out of it. i began to think of it more and more and read about forgiveness not as a theory, but emotional dynamic. the emotional dynamic is, how do you realize forgiveness. you sa