ms. coscarelli: groups can be helpful at almost any phase. and, in fact, we have groups for different phases of the cancer. we try to keep people who are newly diagnosed together. we have groups for people who are -- after the cancer diagnosis, no longer on treatment -- who are dealing with kind of the reentry back into the world of work and living, and still dealing with the changes that have come about in them. i shared it with everybody, and i had a lot of support from friends, and with the groups. it's been great. we also have groups for patients who recur. and that is the reality of cancer... that, for a certain percentage of patients, their disease will recur. cindy: i was very reluctant to go to any kind of a support group because i was one of the tough ones. but the thing that i liked, aside from all the jokes, was that if i did get to that scary place where i might cry, or i might demonstrate my vulnerability, somebody who's sitting next to me totally understood and wasn't going to say, "oh, you're going to be fine." if i hear that o