i want to just look at you, ms. myers i see sometimes you becoming very emotional, and i can tell that this is important to you too. i have a terminal illness right now, i have maybe two years to live, and i need to know that she's my grandchild. i want to spend time with her. i want to know her. i want to know that i've got another niece. i'd like to know that, iron-clad, 100%, so she can be a part of my life. kathy: and it's not that we wouldn't have loved her before but there were so many stories being told, and she was so far away... there's so much doubt that i don't blame them at all for not... you know. they didn't know for sure, i wouldn't... kathy: we've wasted so many kathy: years, i mean, there's so much time... ms. ching-long, what would it mean for you for them to be your family? it's 'cause, my mom... we don't have a lot of family. my mom's parents, they roughly get along, not really, and... i have sisters and they don't get along with her either, i'm the only person my mother has. like i said, i'm not like