. >> thanks so muchin for coming. i am a college student.erate between so many industries from modeling to entrepreneurship and now literature and i was wondering whatat advice you would give to young women in their 20s on owning their sexuality and entering these professional fears and even overlapping between them as you have. >> thank you for coming. i think that one thing i've learned, and this sounds likeun the kind of thing i got adviceit around and i've heard about a million times. it's not helpful but then you come back to it and it's like that was good advice. i do think that trusting your gute' and following your instint there's a culture. i feel like in particular with young women, there's a lot of mentors that will be quick to say you should do it this way,te don't listen to yourself, whatever and can be sort of dismissive. i have found that taking that advice from people has not been helpful but instead, kind of doing what i want to do, nobody i think would have said like write a book of essays about sexuality. like that is the