it was when a shell landed next door that nadezhda and herfamily packed up and fled.never thought we would be in this situation. we were normal people. we had jobs, schools, a normalfamily. and now, we have to ask for help. and the scariest thing is we don't know how long this is for, and whether we will have anything left to go back to. lyudmila tells me every time a door bangs, they think it is an explosion and that they need to grab the children and hide. and nadezhda is constantly checking for news of family and friends they left behind. the town's group chat is now full of videos like this. the boys just miss their own toys and their kindergarten. just speaking to these families here and you realise the depth of what they are going through, because nadezhda was just telling me a few days ago, the main things on her mind were home improvements and shopping and how the kids were getting on at kindergarten. and now, she tells me what she worries about is whether they are all going to wake up safely in the morning. this is where other families will sleep tonight — on