that and explain it to the students without traumatizing them with a scenario supposed to be image nairyhave more on that tonight on abc 7 news at 6:00 in union city, abc 7 news. >> that is an excellent question. we do have more now about how parents should talk to their children about the violence and images they're seeing on tv today. >> in this saturday difficult situation today. >> it s nick, these[5cgs days is hard to escape it with tv, internet, everything. children have access to everything. how do you begin to talk to your kids tonight about what happened? >> the first thing to do is recognize what is going on inside of yourself, kids model how parents are reacting. if you feel anxious, scared, the first step is to calm yourself, work through what you can before talking to them. second step is to begin to listen to them. and fully listen, try not to jump in too quickly to fix the situation. third thing is÷sá emphasize and normalize reactions whether it's fear, or anger, be there, be able to listen to what is going on for them. and last thing, explain what is going on to them in