physically emotionally mentally sick and trainer because of what's happening in our country so you have nanaythat kills that's killed in a post office for goodness like in a post office. then you have j.c.s. killed in a flecked with a grandfather raped and killed and i want to say they put in killed it's not just kill they've been violated in all forms every 26 seconds is a woman that i put in south africa look even in countries where there is a war. we're a presumes there's a tool of war is there that many rapes we need to as so society could lift of and raise our voices and say it's not ok what needs to change the system of apartheid if we do not go back to the total money that our communities faced if we do not speak about the elephant in the room for me about what happened to my father as a as an older man no black man. way when he leaves a moment abuse my mother because he was abused at these will play a place of work and nobody speaks about that that we actually suffer from jeanette i. we know we're going to teach our boys how to respect our girls our young our young men to the young wo