other books the power of off the mindful way to stay sane and a virtual world psychotherapist nancy collyer usually joins us from our studios in new york but cheap too is working closer to home nancy it's great to see. it continue even to come out of living ends that see the pictures we're seeing of new york make the city seem eerie a give us some other adjectives how does it feel to be there now we know how it's charter ling-ling quiet. and and it's also incredibly beautiful when i walk my dog at night and i look down the avenue that's normally you know car it's everywhere and people no one is out so he has this incredible at uni uni and passive family aren't very odd but you. ain't blooming in a way that i've never seen and i've been here many years you see that nature is delighting in this film that's. that's good to hear during this crisis home exile a lifestyle tele medicine has become a big deal it's something that used to seem very futuristic but it is now mainstream are you using the phone and video chat the counsel of the folks that you work with and if so is that something you've

author of among other books the power of off the mind full way to stay sane in a virtual world nancy collyer is a psycho therapist a popular speaker and a relationship coach nancy have social media and online dating trivialized relationships. i think they have i wouldn't ringback say trivialized but they've made dating in any kind of long term way more difficult i would say they've made it easier to meet people but the problem is because we feel like we have and lists options you know you come home from a great date but you know i could get on and maybe see someone that are great they make us less willing to work with the real hard parts of relationship to get their spot maybe not to get that right now we live in a culture and online community supports this that you should get to have everything so they created an environment where the reality of relationships is not acceptable anymore and that makes it for on for 2 or 3 dates and then onward so that's if you call that trivialize yes maybe trivial but actually take the meaning out of relationships take the work out of it you know we know tha