. >> francois is grateful to teen counselor nancy diaz. she helped him see that his girlfriend's behavior was not normal. >> at first i didn't really think it was 'cause, you know, she yelled, she nagged. >> francois tried to ignore it, but that only made things worse. >> then she'll curse at me. sometimes she'll hit me. but i'm thinking, "oh, okay, she's a female. they're supposed to do that." but not knowing that it was actually domestic violence. she was trying to control me. >> it's reported that one out of five teens in a serious relationship say they've been hit, slapped, or pushed by their partner. >> teen dating violence is a very high number. the boys do not share with their friends that they're being pushed and yelled and cursed at. so they're underreported. >> ms. diaz counsels teens through a program called outreach academy. she teaches them to know the signs of abuse, which aren't always physical. >> teen dating violence is all different types of abuse. they intimidate you. they call you names. there's also threatening. "if yo