nancy ekelund began handing out flyers, and counting the days without lynsie.m off a little post it notes. she also went to talk with a detective of the police department. she wanted kareem to know about lynsie. nancy always know where she was, how they were best friends. it was a speech that kareem had known before. >> it's typical with a lot of parents or family members when they report a missing person, sometimes they give you the idea that this is an idea like family life. because i think there is a fear that if they don't paint a very rosy picture of this person. we won't be sympathetic and look for them. >> that you're not gonna work? hard >> were not gonna work hard. and there was a little bit of that with nancy ekelund. >> they were working the case, they brought in the usual suspects. like the boyfriend. >> when you guys were dating, she hasn't been dating anyone else to your knowledge? >> no. >> his name was matthew, he had been at college with lindsey. they were on and off a bit. but then. >> when i went to her house, she was like, i want to break up