on the one hand, we have the kind of liberal individual choice model for what nancy fraser is characterizing as mainstream feminism. to having adult feminism. that to be like successful, to be a fully realized woman who's having adult we need to be ceo or president. we need to be fully present in the public sphere like men are, kind of unburdened or unattached to accessories. accessories, meaning screaming children, aging parents, et cetera. formula feeding is conducive to this type of feminism. it presumes i can outsource or delegate the care of my baby to someone who's going to feed formula. that's one model. an alternative model is one that makes humanly ties of dependency, caregiving roles, intimate human relationships, chaos, competition. actually central to our normative conception of the actor in the public sphere, of a politician, of the ceo, of the worker. i think in this model the public sphere is defined by and includes receiving. in fact, i think breast-feeding is a good teacher for this model. it teaches us that life is unpredictable because we can't control things, that it's me