but then came prosecutor nancy livesay. >> do you know who i am? >> i do. >> who am i? ife miserable. >> but nancy was just getting started, the prosecutors shuns mission? to show the jury that tammy was hardly the tolerant wife she claim to be. when it came to heather elvis, the prosecutor argued, tammy was angry, vengeful and tammy's text to have approved it. >> you've texted her, you can tell me who you are right now or i will find out another way, that way won't have a great turnout for you. >> yes. >> and at the time, how old were you? >> i think i was 41, or 42, i'm not sure. >> so do you know now when you sent her that text that she was a 20-year-old. >> i know now, i did not know that then. >> the prosecutor suggested that tammy behaved like a stalker. >> and you said, at 11:11, i think a -- isn't that what you said? >> if it's on there. >> here's my question to you. how many times had you gone up there and looked her up to believe that she was there, because it's certainly -- >> never. >> what makes you think that she's in hiding? >> i was just being a jerk i gu