napier, go ahead and have a seat. >> following each visit napier undergoes a review. >> let's talk aboutrying. >> i think, you know, when he starts crying i just tell him bradley get up, you know, you're fine because he's raised be a whole bunch of women, you know, and little boys raised be a whole bunch of women get babied and i don't want my son to grow up getting babied all of the time. i want him to have a little bit of toughness about him. the world is tough. get up you got to go on any way. >> i understand where you're coming from. i want to give you a suggestion. it's okay for him to cry. it's okay for you say that he's okay and then address the situation and move on. it kind of seems that some of your patterns came from just, okay, quick fix, let's get him on to something else so he stops what he's doing. it's okay to acknowledge that he's crying and find out why he's crying and thn move on from that. you understand what i'm saying. >> yes. >> appreciate you coming in. >> i like to hear the insight on what people think about me as a father. i'm going to give it some thought but i