how celebrity narcissim is seducing america. thank you for joining us. radar online obtained exclusive video, audiotape. let's take a list ton that right now. first, this is purported to be a phone call between gibson and his exgirlfriend oksana grigorieva. cnn confirmed that the female voice is hers, she claims the male voice is gibson's. let's listen right now. >> i really am angry and really sad, and i really [ bleep ] just want to hurt someone or myself, do you under? you've done this to me. i was never like this. you did it. all right? it's your fault. if something happens, be it on your [ bleep ] head. you know? i don't do -- >> put it on your head. >> i didn't do anything. >> you did so. you're a [ bleep ]. mary margaret from radar online. first of all, thanks for providing that new tape. the tone seems different. in some of the other tapes we've heard an exasperated mel gibson. some questions whether he was drunk, this sounded like a calmer but equally abrasive mel gibson. do you agree? >> i do agree. at the same time it's still menacing. there's