. >> he did at ncaap. look at the speech. he doesn't talk about this at all.duation and give a policy speech. >> exactly. >> i did a back lori yet. you did the commencement at brown. you didn't give a whole philosophy lesson. you talked to the students. >> absolutely. and in many ways, part of what we see here is a reaffirmation of something that i think is critically important. you know, i'm not a believe that marriage in and of itself solves political and social problems. what he was suggesting was the human side of it. what he was suggesting was something about family and i want to be clear, he wasn't being totally middle class about it. he said earlier, all of your partners, whether they be male or female, it was a broad and inclusive message about our humanity. you, successful young person, here in the world where you will face all of these economic difficulties, you're going to have people telling you that the only thing that matters in terms of success is whether or not you reach a certain level, a certain potential, he says, none of that matters if you