and neilia was in the car, theth station wagon, witthree children, beau, hunt, and naomi. >> neilia wasygi br home the christmas tree, with the kids in the car, the three kids in the car. (siren blaring) >> narrator: campaign yers from the car helped identify the bodies. >> she was hit broadside by a tractor trailer. and she and naomi, who sat behind her in the car seat, they died instantly. and beau and hunter were seriously injured. >> and he... he knew, he knew. he knew from the look on her face. >> mbrother looked at me and said, "she's dead, isn't she?" and i said, "i don't know, joey." i did know. jimmy told me. >> narrator: his sons were in the hospital hours away. >> the pain cut through like a shard of broken glass. i began to understand howo despair led peoplest cash it in; how suicide wasn't just an option, but a rational option. >> in six short weeks, he went from being on top of the world to being a young widower, a father of two children, and-- a single dad-- and a man with, you know, a brokeneart. >> nartor: he got to the boys; they were all that was left. broken hips, le