and nela said well, of course it's happening right before christmas, gampy had to get to ganny so theyd decorate their christmas tree. and i thought, you know, from the mouth of babes because they had never spent a christmas apart. >> wow, jenna bush-edgar this morning from the "today" show. michael beslos is with us, his latest books contains the character of 41 who we'll be remembering today, just one aspect of george herbert walker bush who will be remembered today. and, of course, michael has been writing about history and talking about history for years and years. michael, where will your thoughts be when you're inside the cathedral today? >> well, of this wonderful life of 76 years of public service. but maybe the most poignant moment that i think george h.w. bush spent in this cathedral, right after 9/11, there was that service of remembrance of those that lost their lives and the tragedy of that day. he was sitting in the row with his son who was at that time the 43rd 43rd president of the united states. and it was so human. he reached over and grabbed his hand in comfort. >> a