he was like, i'm a a new traditionest, i'm like, what the fuck? real in? and last night the "washington post" did this feature on me over the weekend, and don't read the comments. just don't. and a guy e-mailed me last night and said, i don't know if you know this but exercise is really required to lose weight. and i just thought, you know -- >> host: i'm a tenured professor and never leonard that. >> guest: i have a ph.d but you're right. you're right. have a personal trainer, but i don't know anything. thank you... just walk two or the times a week. could tell this man was being kind and earnest and i have not written him back because my first response was not kind. and cut it was earnest, like ernestly go fuck yourself. sorry, parker. it's very frustrating. >> host: is that kind, to the? when you're able to talk about -- is how whennor body is not the norm, whatever society as decided the norm is, people think it's -- okay do comment about it it's okay to shove you, not talk to you, talk about -- >> guest: the think they can treat you like a garbage can