but no one notified nick hillary. d tandy had split up the month before and he was no longer in her loop. so lieutenant mark murray of the potsdam pd called nick. >> mr. hillary speaking. >> it's mark murray of the potsdam police department. we had an incident occur this evening and we'd like to speak with you in regards to it. >> minutes later, lt. murray and two other investigators were at nick's door, a courtesy notification, they said. >> it's, we're going to reach out to all the people who are connected to this kid. what do they know? do they know anything about where he was or who he might have been with? >> attorney tom mortati represents the potsdam police. >> so mr. hillary, we have some bad news for you. >> yes. you know, mr. hillary expresses shock, i can't believe this, oh my goodness, puts his hands on his head. >> nick hillary says he remembers the moment well. >> i'm still broken up over the situation. he has lived with me. how could i not be affected by what has happened to garrett? >> nick wasn't datin