medical sciences psychotherapist sergei kolov, we are solving the difficult situation of our hero nikita koryakinathat i’m being controlled, but by my desires, that is , i can approximately, which does not concern the relationship, again, everything that concerns the other part of life, it suits me very much and i feel like a very happy person, but there are such sad evenings, yes, well , i don’t know what your concept of personality and personal development is, but science believes that development is overcoming something within yourself, including your desires. including, i can also refer to many authors, well, take my word for it, this is overcoming your own desires and limitations, including , for you in this story, i deliberately asked them, do not somehow adapt to them, your personality begins to degrade, yeah, this applies to relationships, relationships with yourself, but this also applies to relationships, if you don’t make any efforts, everything is only according to your desire, then the development of relationships should not happen. a position that is comfortable for me, so that i don