on the first, this is a psychic podcast, where i, natalya losyeva, a clinical psychologist, nikita yanochkine talk about what to do if you celebrate the holidays differently from everyone else, but if a person is really in the center of this universal holiday, he begins to acutely feel his loneliness, his some kind of abandonment, yes, even if, as you quite rightly say, this is due to the fact that you are like this, well, how to survive this night, what can he do for himself , how to help yourself in the mode of such immediate psychological self-help, i think that... this is this fear, yes, that means, of social death, the so-called, when they judge me, when they don’t understand me, when i am there, that means, will be branded, and this is all immaturity, because an adult, personally, mentally mature, he does not proceed from social stereotypes, shapes his behavior, but from values, his own meanings, but preferences, tastes. the more subjective and independent he is in this matter, the more personally mature he is, so i would recommend to such a person to do self-analysis, right on this ne