you brought up nikki sixx. day when she was hotter, everyone and his brother didn't want to see this woman get sober. everyone tried to help her. at the end of the date it is your responsibility to make these changes and implement these things in your life. obviously she didn't do so. so, no. -- >> when you met whitney, how did you find her? >> very engaging. she was -- once she warmed up a bit. i had some friends in the music business that knew her. i was able to speak with her a couple of times. a little bit shy but once she warmed up to you and felt safe, i guess, she was very a nice woman from what i saw. >> what nikki was saying is if you are in the business of entertainment there's a plethora of people around you, lawyers, accountants, managers, agents makeup artists, assistants, whatever it may be and everyone is relying on you, the talent, to make the money that pays their wages which reduces their tendency to say no or stop you from doing what you want because they may get fired. this is a self perpetu