he'sç got the mug, noah kass, e clinical director of the realization center here in new york city, columnistably one of the age-old debates. throw down your gauntlet, sir. >> i admire and enjoy what bill cosby said about the subject. he said, i don't know the key to success, but i know the key to failure is trying to please everybody all the time. and i feel like since i was very young, my friends and i have been told from the media, from television, movies, magazines, even politics that success is about money and it's about status and it's about power. and i sort of reject that notion. i mean, to me, success is a personal choice. that i get to decide what success is supposed to be. i get to make those standards. no one else gets to. >> but doesn't it even go beyond that. because success isn't one of those things that's an external thing, it's a destination. but if you look at what we're learning, everything from quantum mechanics to manifestation of energy and string theory to anything else, that the only thing that actually we have that's valid is the action that we are taking and our inte