>> that's kind of our story. >> proof that handyman noel stevens was a murder.n's sister paula for example, and things start to sound a bit more complex. >> i just think that he always loved himself more than he loved anyone else, and it was all about him and what he wanted. >> that was george that she was talking about, the selfless firefighter had another side, so paula. >> the verbal abuse, the intimidation, the control, georgia is always a controlling guy. >> hold the camera in your hand, push it away from us. >> according to paula, george had become ever more controlling and judgmental, especially about shauna's spending habits. it only got worse when shauna told george that the marriage was over. >> he said, if you don't come back to me, and we can solve this out, you will lose custody of your daughter. -- >> that was his first? >> that was our number one the fear. oh, absolutely, he used her daughter as a way to manipulate shauna, time and time again. >> shauna had been letting her work mates retakes misogyny that george sent as things got worse to the ma