norman smellie was brought to the icu from the bone marrow transplant unit, and he has continued to get worse. >> all right, don't push too hard because he's got pain in his thigh. >> narrator: so dr. nelsonants to meet with norman's family and dr. osman to discuss his prognosis. >> he has a lot of medical problems, as you know, and he doesn't have terrific counts. he got grade-four graft versus host disease of the bowel, which i have yet to see someone recover from and live through. he also has cmv, so he has a lot, a lot of problems. you know, i had many conversations with norman myself about his prognosis and what would happen and what he wanted. but you can have a lot of conversations about these things, but i think when the moments come, i don't think that anybody can be completely prepared for what it's really all about. >> so you know he had the biopsy the other night. it looks like that is the gvhd. >> but i have a question, and i would like a straight answer. is my brother dying? i think i need... i need a straight answer. >> what do you think, phyllis? what do you think? >> wait. >> i think we can say what we think, but what is your gut feeling about it? >> my gut feeling is tha