so when i go to university, i go to nottingham uni and i do law, and i do a stint in the law review.i was an exhibitionist. and, um, and i use humour. i use humour a lot. it's a protection, but also it relaxes people. it's a great help with communication with people. you're in yourface, in your humour. i mean, let's be honest. you're wearing a rather wonderful necklace today which says better off dead, which is the title of a documentary you've made. but i'm just taking from that that you enjoy sort of confronting people. yeah. yes. because there's no point being polite and nice and "hi, how are you?" that's all great, and that has a part to play, but we really want to know much more about people. we need... we need to connect, you know, in a sense of humanity, i think. and what this does, yes, it's the name of the documentary, but it's not there completely to be provocative. it's because complete strangers in the street will say to visibly disabled people, "gosh, you know, "if was like you, i think i'd rather be dead." they think they're complimenting you, and they're actually sayin