coffee with mum, a simple pleasure nour ammar doesn't take for granted.nine countries to make it here. her father died in the war in syria. now, she's learnt swedish, got her driving licence and a job in a food warehouse. i have my apartment, i have my family, i have myjob, so i feel like i'm a stable, confident person right now. what about making friends, settling in? they are a close group, the swedish people, so you can't just go in and be friends with some swedish people. you can't do that. do you have any swedish friends? no, i don't have any. she'd hoped for deeper connections, but still feels lucky to be here. that's because sweden, one of the most welcoming countries to migrants, changed its approach soon after she arrived, limiting numbers and making temporary permits the norm. for a centre—left government, it was a major shift in policy. of course it was a tough decision to make, but on the other hand, there was nothing else to do. there arrived 114,000 people to sweden injust four months, and it would have been impossible for sweden to keep on