they thanked the feminism and gay rights activism and f nu yu -- funyons. they say american men measured themselves against the stoic hero who offers women a shoulder to cry on. they take on the traditional female roles like care taking and cleaning. once i called them too stressful and, quote, they are looking for alternative models of masculine tee. who isn't? tom i go to you first. >> i heard this before at the death of the masculine man. you are stoic but in a do -- demented, creepy, goofy way. your emotions are often not matched to your expressions like when you a angry you are happy. it is very strange. anyway, answer whatever question. >> it is funny. i was looking at your description of the classic american male. i think i am more masculine than those john waynes. these men who offer their shoulder? i just say stop crying, woman. take a handkercheif. >> and fe don't stop crying he chops off their arm. >> i feel like i am very masculine. you are right. you struck upon something. i am a real man's man. the world streets me like i am not. i have a manl