. >> that's why there's occuvyte. a unique formula that's just not found in any leading multi vitamin. >> help protect your eye health with uccuvite. >>> it's lobster fest. red lobster's largest variety of lobster dishes all year. dueling lobster tails or lobster lovers dream a delicious reality. hurry this won't last long. >> number one in just 60 seconds. >>> good evening. it is a wrenching dilemma. your child is born with the anatomy of both a boy and a girl. these children used to be known as hermaphrodites. now they're called intersexed. in the hospital there's often pressure to perform surge rye right away to make the gender clear. but tonight you're going to meet someone who grew up and concluded the choice that was made was wrong. here's my "nightline" coanchor juju chang. >> reporter: it's the first question when a baby's born. is it a boy or a girl? sometimes the answer isn't that simple. >> they told me that he was intersex. >> reporter: meaning born with both male and female genitals. pamela and mark crawf