, and she turned to me, answering me in ocholi. they made me break down because i exactly saw in her eyes what happened to me when i was growing up. and that became very, very hard on me. and then when i met up with a group of women who were in a workshop in civil society and i could see in their eyes i was the only ugandan seated there, and all of them had these questions of, like, why are we being fought by this one guy, joseph coney, that we don't understand. and the thing that they raised, they say our voices cannot be heard, how did you people do it that the world had your voice, and now the war in northern ugandan is able to get stopped. and one thing that they all echoed was that they all say that because they feel their voices can not be heard, they feel this is a trick of eliminating their ethnic group, which is the zanda tribe, because when you look at central african republic, sudan and congo, it is it will zanda tribe that joseph coney is harassing. it was difficult for me hearing from them. i told them, there are peopl