ohno. barack is a problem solver. you reach up to 13. we will figure this out. it is one of those things. we don't need help from anybody. and i was like... for me, i was like i need to go to somebody who will tell you... was like i need to go to somebody who will tell you. .. you're wrong. and i talk about that. i did not get that. the period of counselling for me was a turning point. i learned i was still responsible for my own happiness. it wasn't his job to solely make me happy. i had to figure out my space in this. do you still feel if we need to go back we would do that, even though you are so would do that, even though you are so well known now? absolutely. gosh, yes. i think counselling is one of those tuneup times. marriage is hard. all marriages are hard. and even, look, you know us. i love my husband. we have a wonderful marriage. but it takes work. the former first lady there was some wise words. a relationship takes work. even, rico, our relationship ta kes work. even, rico, our relationship takes work. h