after all the headlines, the phone tapes and court hearings, oksana grigorieva dropped her domestic violencem against mel gibson. tmz reports she hopes the move will help gibson fairly settle custody of their daughter. >>> after three marries, then a divorce in 1985, marie osmond remarried steven craig yesterday in las vegas. osmond wore the same dress she did three decades ago at their first wedding. >>> and finally, cameron diaz tells "maxim" magazine that marriage is a dying institution. paraphrasing from diaz, currently dating alex rodriguez of the yankees, guys need women who challenge them and don't let them get away with stuff. women need to not be crazies who blow up when their guys tell them something that scares them. i don't know if this makes sense. anyway, i think a-rod is breathing a sigh of relief like, yeah, thank god. >> the crazies. >> what are you looking at me for? >> i'm just saying. >> keep it -- yeah. how about that wedding dress? >>> well, i'm lynn berry and this is "first look" on msnbc. stay tuned, "way too early with willie geist" starts right now. >>> new details