someone who' can be more open also to get feedback om peers. those things work st in a group setng. i have that independent streak. i n't want to risk giving up something to getel what would you risk here? i don't-- i'm t sure. i mean, i-- i don't know exactly, but there is some fear of losing control. . i-- i'm trying-- i esone of the big fears is that i'll become too ndent, that i have such a need to be dependent on people that if i start... giving you a concrete example, i've talked about jen in the pt, d 're sort ofinvolv again, but i el like i'm afraid that because she's my oneutlet erms of beinop-- i n cry in front of he i can talk to her about anything. i can tell her what i'm feeling at any moment. i feel like i'm putting all my eggs in one bket. it's going to beoo muc for her to handle. i'm pulling myself back d saying, "stop. don't call her. she doesn't need your burdens." group therapy can be of various therapeutc orientions. in this oup, delores mcrthy u a combinatn of approaches. my training is what would be called psychona orchoanalyti theayhat i in thugio, buveee ue l

om that. but it is true of everyone out there. what i'm trying to say to people is rather than listen to what your friends are doing or peer pressureut what you're good at, what you're interested in and match it to jobs and add value and i think money will follow. >> and that's funny. one of the expressions i use almostvery day in this crowd is talking wth my colleagues, make sure we're adding value to the air. and that is good advice -- i think pretty good idea. rob kaplan's book is "what you're really meant to do." it is available in bookstores and online now. it is highly ranked on amazon and doing terrific. we're going to continue to flog this book mercilessly in the eks ahead. get the links at loudobbs.com. best of luck with the book. >>> political dynamo, just a few of the words used describe the founder and the leader of fox news. now a new biography, roger ales, off welcome to the new buffalo... whe new york state is vesting one billion dollars to attract and grow business. where companies like geico are investing in technology & finance. welcome to the state where cutting taxes for business... is our business. welcome to t