neil: when you look at the tv landscape, the personalities who dominate it, it is very opinioted to meour face, always screaming. we try not to do that here, but you know what i mean. >> it is not really my cup of tea. television that is more sensational and less informative might be entertaining to some people but i don't think it elevates the level of discussion. i would much prefer to be in a situation where we can disagree without being disagreeable. it is extremely tough, the whole reality has in a lot of ways made women really look bad. african-american women, latina women, young womenolder women, women in general. what happens is it shows the worst spac days opinion of whata woman does when she is put into a group, she will be in a catfight, use foul language, when it has always been my experience. in a professional work environment you're never permitted to act that way. i cannot say to you that on mber of my organization could go to work and behave that way. not oneember. there's only one job that allows you to act like an idiot, it is called reality television. you cannot act