. >> and matchmaker and coach at dream bachelor and bachelorette, suzanne oshima.o you both. >> this movie has sparked so much controversy and debate and conversation among men and women. here's our first clip. a female character set up ground rules for dating. one of them is she will not go out with a man who will not open the door for her. take a look. >> uhhh -- >> it's open. it's open. >> i don't go out on dates with guys that don't open the door for me. >> really? >> really. >> seriously? >> yeah. >> oh, man. >> no, he didn't. >> wait. he comes back. we should point that out, he comes back. >> classic. we like it. >> he came back. that would have been the worst part of that for me. no. i'm joking. i'm joking. you know what? here's the deal. i'm surprised that she even continued. if you stand at a car and a man doesn't get the hint that he's supposed to open the door, date should be over right then and there. okay? you can't make a man a gentleman. gentlemen are raised from the time they're little boys. they can't be made into gentleman. last week i was mr. jer