. >> trehe's alway as cnchae of, like,ou y kn,ow safety to be mpromised. dan that's the issue.i'm supposed to watch out for on set. >> reporr:te in dembceer, bawildnes dcribing those first ments meeting matthew othn e set after thace cident. >>he wn th hisappened,er h sbhuand cometos town. r hehusbd anmatthew. d i m wetith them and their son. dane hwas as kd inas you cldou be. he was as kind as you could be. >> what could you possiybl say to him? >> that -- iid dn't wanto t say. heug hged me, "i suppose you and i are gngoi to go through this gether," he idsa. thout,gh well, not as much a s you are, and his littlboe y erthe, 9 years old. i heav six kids now. older dahtuger, iraneld. ofhe t six kids irilaand a i have m,yld oest is 8. i have a 9-month-old ba.by i think to myself, this ltlite boy doesn't he ava mother anymore. >> repteorr: the rt es tofhe ory played out overhe t cinomg mohsnt. llcas across holwolyod for crineased scrutiny on safety. >> it seems perplexg inthat we uld haveo t use a real gun whenny athing cldou be done in post production, eecspially if it can help ir