." >> reporter: after nearly collapsing from exhaustion and overwk, lynda fgun finay took time off fora mission trip to nicaragua and reset her priorities. she takes fridays off now. sometimes when her cell phone rings she doesn't answer, and she's lost weight in part by resisting the temptation to sample every dish at every church gathering. >> bill caught me this morning running a little bit. >> i saw you jogging. >> hey, she runs, she don't jog. >> just because i love the people, and i truly do, i cannot be there for everything, and they understand that, and they know that, and it is part of our job to set those boundaries, but it is very, very difficult to do so. >> reporter: difficult, but essential for clergy to manage the stress that comes with the job and focus on the work they really feel called to do. >> there's a lot of pressure that we put on ourselves as clergy because of what we're doing, and we don't want to let god down. >> reporter: for "religion and ethics newsweekly," i'm deborah potter in bostic, north carolina. >>> we have a story today about a family caregiver. on