you know that everyone had everybody because we saw that touch lisa's oxytocin and i can only give you that gift i can make my brain really said i can give it to you so this connection is very important bill happiness you know book is called the moral molecule the source of love and prosperity and you are a neuro at the nomic studies right what is right you're all at the moment so we measure brain activity while people make decisions and some those decisions and money just a way to see what people value so sober example we do decisions in which you can share money with a stranger and ask why would you ever do that if you share money with a stranger i would ever return it to you as we showed that was i want to trust it tangibly with money their brains release oxytocin and it motivates them to reciprocate so this is the biological basis for the golden rule which exists in every culture on the planet we found very recently larry that in fact the individuals released the most oxytocin when there are happier or more satisfied their lives why better romantic relationships and friends closer

very recently married that in fact the individuals released the most oxytocin when there are happier or more satisfied their lives why better romantic relationships and friends closer to their family members and they're even nicer strangers are sure the money task in a capitalist society isn't money because that was the number one ingredient in the gordon days gordon gekko happy. well gordon gekko if his motto is greed is good and if he has a lot of money but relationships then no he would not be people win the lottery ted as it tends not to make them happier for one thing it ruins the relationship suddenly everyone around you things the only piece of it but part of it gotta make them happy among earned success makes people happy so if you work hard and people respect you for it so you work hard people esteem you you feel you're moving up and it doesn't damage your relationships people actually admire you for it that does make you happy so rich people are happier on average but if you make your money by winning the lottery you know so that's called meaning so it's really whether your

. >> well, no, that's another hormone you probably never heard of called oxytocin.en, your wife nurses, right, and she feels calm and loving because her body is making so much, and nature wanted her to do that so she would sit still, relax the baby, feed the baby, not be all stressed out. now in the anti-aging world, another hormone to add to your hormonal song is oxytocin. as women get older and lose the sex hormones, estrogen, progestero progesterone, testosterone, here is the deal, women can't feel sex if they don't have sex hormones, so you have to put the hormones back so you can get the feeling back, but most women think they have lost interest in it. now theyhe oxytocin, it makes you have more frequent and better orgasms. >> thank you. >> in catholic school, you couldn't talk about it. you think you're uptight. >> i wanted to compliment you. i am convinced, you got me thinking about this. then i started to read about it. i am like two books behind you, but i am so busy in my life, i don't have time to read fun things i want to read. >> what are you doing? >>

set a tone and dopamine opiates these are influence through emotional status so oxytocin is called the longing mood most and we can train your brain. clearly and what a lot of people think that if they do enough sudoku puzzles are enough crossword puzzles that's going to prevent also keep our job is next book super brain will be published in november already published as dr gary smalls the all time is prevention program now let's talk about memory what's the number one cause of memory loss the number one cause is aging by age forty five for the average person you can detect memory loss and by age sixty five or older at least sixty percent of people notice these changes but these are normal aspects of aging it doesn't necessarily mean they're going to get all simers dementia the next day that usually it's pretty stable where is memory stored well this is the big question cellular memory nobody knows where it's stored we know the biological correlates of it but if i asked you that he would you have for dinner tonight. i have to think over turkey turkey though before i ask the question th

another thing, when people listen to music together, oxytocin is released, a chemical associated with and trust. is what mother's release when they are nursing their infants. prolactin is another hormone that women excrete. we also believe that prolactin is also excluded when people listen to music. chemically, that seems to be what is going on. you were also talking about dance and music. music activates the cerebellum, which is responsible for your ability to move, your limbs, parts of your body, to maintain a steady gait. it is almost automatic, when music comes in at a student -- certain polls, neurons are going to fire in synchronization with that polls. even kids move to music. one of your more recent records, you took some children's folk tunes and you rearranged them. we were talking about kids moving. do you have any of those candy? -- handy? >> yeah. i will play a little bit of an old appalachian folk song. what i tried to do is -- and the melody is there, song is there, but i tried to bring the rhythm into a more contemporary context. this has more of an r&b, hip-hop feelin

i was charged with medications i didn't receive such as oxytocin.dn't spend one minute in the nursery? >> he didn't spend one minute in the nursery. >> prenatal vitamins, radiology, midwife bills, labs and hospital fees and after 15 months of negotiations for a corrected bill, her tally came to $9,442.41. and she paid $1,912 out of pocket. while she tried to predict costs beforehand so her family could save for her entire pregnancy, even that proved impossible. >> not a single person could give me an estimate of what the cost would be. >> it's even more difficult for women uninsured. >> over $10,000. >> reporter: now mom gave birth to her third child three weeks ago. recently she became self-employed after starting a business with her husband. once pregnant, she realized she wouldn't be able to get insurance and would be responsible for all the costs of her pregnancy and delivery. >> they said, well, we're sorry but you have a pre-existing condition and we can't insure you and then i had a lot of anxiety. >> a difficulty we learned about firsthand a