padma lakshmi says she understands why women didn't report their assault because she didn't. er rr at dy for sex. i didn't report it, lakshmi writes. not to my mother, not to my friends, not to the police. she began tvirginity, it would deal or a conscious decision. the loss of control was disorienting. but lakshmi says by the time she wassilenced. when i was 7 years old, i was touched between my legs. when i told my mother and grandfather, they sent me to india to live for a year. if you speak up, you will be cast out. lakshmi is sharing now because of the allegations against supreme court brett kavanaugh. some say a man shouldn't pay a price for an act he committed as a teenager. but the woman pays a price for the rest of her life. president trump's tweet on friday questioned why kavanaugh's initial lance then, milano, ashley judd and mira sorvino, have joined celeb and ordinary people alike, sharing their own stories with #whyididntreport. and on monday, members of the #timesup movement wore all black and posted photos on social media, with #believesurvivors. now, lakshmi s