her name was pamela phillips. >> pamela phillips was very elegant. she played the part of a socialite. she always looked very put together. >> gary told me that, you know, he met the love of his life and he was really taken aback by this beautiful, intelligent woman. >> and gary, who is so smitten, the story goes that he calls his wife up who's on vacation in europe with their two children and he just announces, you know, "i'm leaving you." >> pam was a figure of widespread fascination and could be every bit a life-altering sensation. as much of a merger as a marriage, gary and pam were officially power coupled at a black-tie wedding on a yacht in san diego. did you hear that the vows they exchanged included the phrase, "for richer or for richer" instead of "for richer or poorer"? >> i think i remember that, now that you say that. yeah. >> you did hear that? >> yeah. >> gary bought pam a beautiful diamond ring, which he claimed was worth $250,000. they had twin jaguars. they had this beautiful home at the base of the catalina mountains. >> pam and ga