of course, why is he investing so much of himself and emotional and in terms of time michael why can he call you papame please, well for example, so that's enough. a little cause you understand what's the difference? how to name let them not call you dad, why do you need it why is the stepfather's position bad? well, i'll just explain. uh, we just have two more our children and we wanted our family to be conditionally closed, so that there would be no one calling kostya and someone dad , so that other children would not have questions. why so bad. what is there to say? is there dad here? kostya well, we acted intuitively in this situation, as it were, maybe i’m more like, well, how to say a woman’s such a position, but i wanted the children not to have this, so that they feel that they are children, like real ones favorite, but they are not real conditionally their children real life. well, you are trying them, she is somewhere on the clouds with unicorns, it means to grow. yes, real life is different. well, let's talk about it, and this is a podcast of the psyche and the thought of the leading clini