it's a very odd parapa at the time tick crazed out of your control work.very hard to plan the family life. they worked very, very hard as my parents but also as actors to afford me an education where i had the opportunity and privilege to be able to try and channel myself towards other goals. i wanted to be a bear sister for there's definitely a crossover especially in criminal law trying to persuade an audience of jurors and a judge of the case. and your client's story. so i did go down that road for a little bit. i think they would have been happy if i ended up there. i met so many people who gave me the same story. it's oversubscribed. you can't controlcg your pay or private life. so much that was similar sets of problems. i thought why am i giving up on my dream for a an very hard career, more competitive career in many ways than being an actor. so i did and much to dade's amazing itselflessness as a man i hope to echo that when my time comes to be a dad, he said to me after a car park after a play i did, he said you're bet now than i ever was or are e

. >> i'm a parapa lee jik. >> it was an atv accident that damaged her spinal cord and left her paralyzedm the waste down down. this is the last picture of amy taken before the accident soaking up the sun with her dog. >> when i look at it now it breaks my heart because that was my old life. that was the last day of my old life, and the first day of my new life. hi, matt. >> how are you? >> doing awesome. >> i met up with amy and her husband three weeks after the accident. >> am i allowed to sit here? >> come on up. >> we talked about the mount she learned she would need dangerous surgery and might not survive. >> for some reason what jumped into your mind is tom. >> yeah, i wanted to tell him that if i don't make it, like live your life and, you know, move on. >> what was it like to hear those words come out of her mouth at that particular time? >> it was tough, and one of the things that i told her was if she wanted to -- if all this was too much and she wanted to go, she could go and i would understand. >> and that was tough to hear, but it was also, matt, a challenge. don't tell me i