. >> reporter: she says parenwith parents that didn't speak to her, she went to the internet and foundnswers in porn. >> i turned to porn as comfort to know that my body was okay and normal. >> to look at regular porn as an instructional manual for sex sad is ridiculous. >> she's a former soft core porn star. and the host of a weekly sex show on vivid radio. >> if you want to teach your kid how to drive a car, do you teach them by watching an action movie? to expect to learn about sex by watching a porn is unrealistic because it is a made up fantasy world. >> girls would ask me, my boyfriend wants to know why i don't make the noises like the porn stars when we have sex and i would say, it's a movie. >> i've had guys say that to me, that i'm not expressive or vocal enough. >> reporter: she says it's not necessarily bad bullet it's important to remember who the intenlded audience is. men. >> i didn't know that a woman can finish from sex until a friend told me and i'm 21. >> have institutions like sex ed failed us? >> kids should learn about good sex in sex ed, yes. they really should. b