in it let's say you haven't done that you're partners and you don't know what to do -- >> rock, partnperissors. >> do you have a partner? >> i do. there is an elephant in the question and it is this. all of the relationships come with conflict, that's part of it. but if you get to the point where you have to ask for advice on how to reconcile conflict because it is happening that often, or because it has got to some extremes, then you got to go back and look at whether or not you're really compatible. i think a lot of people don't make it because people don't think through ahead of time whether or not to put up with the conflict. it is not like marital relationships. >> this say question about getting an sba loan. >> i was fortunate enough to sell my home five years ago. and i'm not currently a homeowner. yet i would love to be able to get an sba bank guaranteed loan as a nonhomeowner. what are my options to get sba money? >> there is no rule you have to have a home to get a loan, but it is very helpful. >> right. the sba backs loans and according to the website it not disqualifying to n