i do not know that any of us would have developed responsibility with housing and passout a path of opportunity have to have the belief that it will lead somewhere. by the way, the young women meeting those young men do not regard them as being marriageable material. these young men who never held a steady job for very long. the whole thing, teaching responsibilities without having the opportunity component is a dead end, but we have to have growth. the gaps are very early in life. before children step foot in kindergarten, coming at of low- income or minority families they are already way behind in terms of achievement. the schools exacerbate baghdad. i think if we can all agree that opportunity and responsibility go hand in hand and the message is to have to improve both of them, we can all agree on that, and that creates a path forward. had we prevent the achievement gaps from starting so early in life? by the time that people become adolescents and much more susceptible to the call to messages that you described, we have to of the counter message. -- we have to have this counter message. yo