. >> mom, respecthem after i passway, i want you to expect that i love and respect that guy, too .w yourr mom's values and if she remarries, she is going to remarry somebody that i approve of. and so i want you to respect that man like he was me. >> more of this remarkable story when we return. stay with us. >> the color of rain is a phenomenal story. it was a sad moment. you guys had just lost spouses within days of each other and now you meet, how does that meeting turn into a romance, gina? >> it takes time. when you meet under those conditions, the last thing on your mind is love and romance because falling in love is high riskk territory. you have just lost the love of your life and the thought of exposure to loss again is not something you can think of. over many, many mongs we got to know each other. a lot of time with our kid and families, together . very little time one on one. over the two years that we got to know each other we had one date. it was not like we dated. >> but it was a great date. >> it must have been a great date. >> yeah. >> it started as a friendship and