however, we did receive a pops to pat berg, through a joufrty representative saying: >>> the reason that it continued to go is because i was still to desperate for some ray of lyiight, something to make this better. if this is what my life is going to be like. i don't want to live any more. >> after graduating she took matters into her own hands and report her rapist to the police. she was convicted of sexual age. >> if you had told me when i walked out of this office with no hope, that one day my rapist would be convicted and sentences to prison, that i would live a stable successful life. and that i would be healing from my abuse, i would never have been able to believe you. others who have taken the hard step to come forward are waiting with hope and a prayer that change will come. >> some day i would like to see a world where universities, churches, schools, families, friends, stand alongside the victim. and not cover up the abuse. >>> after the break - from hawaii, a new preach to crime and punishment that mirrors an old adage - spare the rod, spoil the child. >> this is parenting 1

. >> reporter: she was referred to pat berg, the wife of dean brg, the former dean of students.ike landry she was told the repeated rapes were her own fault. she talked about my sin recording it. an example would be she'd say that if i had ever experienced pleasure at any point while he was doing this to me, that that was sin that i needed to repent of. i remember her looking at me and saying "you know that the nightmares are your own fault. because you are choosing to replay pornographic thoughts in your mind.". >> reporter: she showed us an email telling her to call her rapist and ask for forgiveness. you are being advised "i thing it would be best to say to them since you've been at bju god has been working in your heard and that you were wrong not to you." me. what? >> because i had failed. obviously years before to not forgive him. >> reporter: pressured by professor berg she agreed to call her rapist. >> it was incredibly hard. picking up the phone that day and calling him was one of the gut wrempingly hard -- gut wrenchingly hard things i had to do. it didn't bring me hea