>> patrick o'sullivan. >> we talked about everything. very emotional at times.m back massages. it was just a relationship that bonded very well, very quickly. >> at the time his last name was different. after he is release it became o'sullivan when he and patrick got married. >> he calls me wifey. yeah he calls me wivfy. i think it's cute. i let him do that. because i am the wife in the situation, so. >> new york state law allowed inmates the right to marry for decades. when the state adopted gay marriage that applied to inmates as well. >> the o'sullivan wedding was the first gay wedding we had here at the jail because the law recently changed. >> officer macdonald over seas all suffolk county weddings which last five minutes anded allow for two outside guests. >> patrick's mother came and was a witness. it was similar to every other wedding we do. it was two guys, yeah. girl guy, guy, girl, a wedding is a wedding. >> we exchanged rings. hug and a kiss. everybody went on their way. i went back to my floor. >> hey, babe. >> how are you? >> okay. >> i miss you. >